Being Happier Lady

The Right Attitude Will Make You Sexy

For decades, women have been on a chase to be sexy. Women will do crazy diets; buy insane amounts of makeup and about a thousand other things. However, we as women often tend to forget how to apply the most important key to feeling more beautiful. The mind. That is right, what makes you a sexy woman is your head. Many of us preach it and may even believe it to be true. But it is seldom told to us how to be sexier inside out instead of outside in. That is why pharmaceutical companies have all but given up on female performance enhancing drugs. As opposed to men who are visual creatures, women are turned on by what we feel, think and hear. If you just aren’t feeling sexy in your head, you just cannot successfully translate that into a physical reality.
As a note, men can detect a woman who doesn’t feel good about who she is inside and will treat you accordingly. If you don’t think you are dreamy goddess, you reflect it in how you carry yourself. Honestly, why should he go out of his way if you don’t take the time to have a sexy mind?
So being that it has been established of what makes you a sexy woman, let’s talk about five of the most important ways you can feel sexier in the mind.

Sexy Mind Tip #1- Read your Harlequin and classic romance novels

There has been a few studies that claim women who read romantic novels have better sex lives than women who don’t. Reading erotic stories stimulates the mind and imagination. This can inspire you more than you know.

Sexy Mind Tip #2-Think like a guy

What in the world does that mean? Well that simply means, make it a point to think about sex several times a day. If you are trying to avoid thinking about sex like the plague, how are you going to get into liking yourself? Exploring your mind in this sense is all a part of what makes you a sexy woman. When you are having a stressful day, go off into your mind and have fun. There are no rules in this playground!

Sexy Mind Tip #3- Imagine your ideal sexual encounter at least and play it out in your head 3 times a week

Play it over in your mind. Let yourself go wild and clearly visualize every part of it. What are you wearing? Where are you? What is your demeanor? Who are you with? What do they look like?

Sexy Mind Tip #4 – If you have a partner reflect and focus on parts of your partner’s body or behaviour that is appealing to you

If he makes you laugh, embrace it and appreciate it. If he has great calves or strong arms or you like his eyes, be open and tell him. Men like compliments just as much as women and they thrive on praise. For those ladies who are lesbian, this is no different. Praise your lady-love and she will adore you even more. We all enjoy positive reinforcement!

Sexy Mind Tip #5 – Abolish negative thoughts about sex

Previous experiences may have really skewed your perspective when it doesn’t need to be. Thinking that nice girls don’t enjoy sex is a complete falsehood. There are more than enough studies that show that sex is beneficial to the mind and body. It triggers the human growth hormone. It is a natural painkiller. It releases beta-endorphins. Sex relaxes you and also aids in slowing down the aging process. Wouldn’t getting your grove on be cheaper and more fun than Botox injections or pricey anti-wrinkle cream?